I'm not sure if I've mentioned the FlyLady before, if I have, sorry for the repeat.
The FlyLady is one of my heroes. In preparing to organize my stash, I've started getting rid of things. Not anything craft related, not yet anyway. But following the FlyLady's cleaning routines has made a difference is just a short amount of time. So, here's my FLYing story:
FLYing refers to Finally Loving Yourself. By taking the focus off of what I couldn't or didn't get done in a day to allowing only 5-15 min per task on my to do list has made life less stressful. Yes, the to do list is still long and a bit overwhelming when you look at the whole thing. But, when I give myself a time limit to work on a specific project, knowing that if I don't finish the project, that I can go at it again tomorrow, has made things less stressful. It has made me feel productive with less negative self-talk. I have defined deadlines at work, I don't need to do that to myself with my personal life. One point she makes is that procrastination is a form of perfectionism. If something can't be done perfectly, then we put it off, making the job much harder when we do have to deal with it. I see that in myself, in the way I clean, get my car fixed, even in my knitting. If a job seems to hard, then I don't do it right away. That's what the book is about, though, it appears to be a cleaning book. . .
I first read the book in 2004. I signed up for daily emails and reminders. At first it was totally awesome. I'd come home from work and then look up what tasks had been emailed to me. It got hectic really quickly. I lived with my husband and a roommate, who had her own boyfriend who semi lived with us. I was working two jobs, about 60 hrs or more a week. I soon lost focus, decided that since I couldn't do it perfectly every day, that I wasn't going to do it at all. And no, I do not blame the FlyLady for this, she said that my house didn't get dirty in a day, that it wasn't going to get clean overnight. I expected miracles that involved cleaning fairies and magical spaces that would hold all my stuff. Once my husband and I moved into our own place I realized what the problem was. We had to much stuff for the amount of space we had. Well, we couldn't afford a bigger place so the other option is to get rid of things. In comes the FlyLady again. One of her first bits of cleaning advise is to just focus on de-cluttering. Get rid of the things you don't love and cherish, all the extra stuff is just junk that you have to keep clean and store somewhere.
Ten years later and I still consider myself a "fly Baby". I don't have a daily routine down, but what I do have is a good understanding of the work involved in keeping myself sane.
Check out her website and maybe read her book (though the info you'll need is all on the sight).